Beside is in beta. We're actively building and would love your feedback — thanks for being an early member.

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Beside is a community, dating, and meetup site for sides: guys who are open to everything but penetration. Plenty of us are out there, but finding each other is another story. On most apps you're left guessing, explaining, or settling. Beside skips all of that. Everyone here is already on the same page, so you can stop filtering and start connecting.

Two separate spaces. You choose.

Connect and Casual are kept completely apart — pick one and you'll never see the other. Change your mind or take a peek any time.

Connect

Dating, friends, and community — in person or online.

Casual

Right-now, casual connections — in person or online.

See who's nearby

Browse guys around you on a list or map — approximate locations only.

Organize meetups

Create group meetups, RSVP, and sort the details on a built-in discussion board.

Message & connect

Direct and group messaging with live online indicators.